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Dating Tips 5 min read

Green Flags vs Red Flags: What to Look For

Learn to notice the signs of a healthy connection — and the ones worth walking away from.

We talk a lot about red flags, but green flags deserve equal attention. Knowing both helps you choose well.

Green flags

  • They respect your boundaries the first time.
  • They're consistent between words and actions.
  • They're curious about your world.
  • They handle disagreement with calm.

Red flags

  • Love-bombing that feels too fast.
  • Disrespect toward waiters, family or exes.
  • Guilt-tripping when you say no.
  • Vague answers about their intentions.

Trust patterns over promises. People show you who they are over time.

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